As a woman, it can sometimes be difficult to tell if the guy you’re interested in actually wants a relationship with you.
Is he just messing around?
Does he just want to have fun?
Or, is he actually ready to commit, settle down, and have a real relationship?
A lot of women get frustrated about this topic, because men can be extremely difficult to read in this area.
So in this post, you’re going to learn 4 tips to help you spot whether or not he may be ready to settle down and make you ‘the one’ for him.
Buckle in and get ready to identify the good (or bad) signs.
Let’s jump into it.
1. He’ll Make Time For You
When a man really wants you and really wants a relationship with you, he’ll make time for you.
He’ll put effort into seeing you, communicating with you, and exchanging energy and information with you.
You’ll feel a sense of desire and urgency coming from his end of things.
You’ll be able to tell that he wants to invest in the relationship.
These are great signs.
If you don’t detect this ‘energy’ emanating from him, however—well, he may just be ‘opportunistically’ seeking you out when it’s convenient for him.
2. He’ll Respond To Your Communication
If a guy waits for several days to reply to a text or call you back, there’s a good chance that you’re not a huge priority to him.
And this doesn’t bode well in the ‘relationship’ territory.
On the flip side, if a guy gets back to you pretty quickly when you initiate communication, you can be pretty reasonably sure that he’s at least interested in you, and is at least prioritizing you to the point where he may actually be interested in a relationship.
This could be a sign that things are actually heating up.
3. He’ll Take The Initiative
Does he often ask you out on dates?
Does he take the initiative to spend time with you?
Does he lead from the front and/or proactively initiate communication in your interactions?
Do arrangements for time spent together feel like coordinated efforts on his part to spend time in close proximity?
Or, do you often feel like you’re the only one who does these things?
If he takes at least a certain amount of initiative for these things, then you can be reasonably sure that he’s actually interested in something serious.
On the flipside, if you’re the one who’s always initiating, consider pulling back as a test.
You may find that he’s just being opportunistic and hitting you up when it’s convenient.
4. He’ll Prioritize You
If you’re the most important woman in the world to him, then he’ll find a way to naturally and organically let you know that.
See, men don’t really do things by accident.
When they’re interested in a woman and want her in their life, they take steps in that direction.
If he’s not prioritizing you at all, that’s not a good sign.
It probably means that he’s just not feeling it in the ‘relationship’ category.